RantMaster

First blog post and whats more fun than sex? Nothing! OK maybe chocolate, MAYBE!

Why is it taboo to talk about sex? As a child of divorced parents who consider themselves very liberal and open minded about anything and everything, I have not received “the talk” until I was 18 years old and already dating actively since 15 years old ( I know very young in terms of today….or maybe any day). Now as a mother of two young boys I think to myself when and how should I approach and introduce the “bees and birds” but then again I ask myself why is such a big deal? No its not!

Being stupid teenager myself I met some other stupid teenagers who had no fucking idea about the reproduction system and its wonders, and I am in my twenties right now so this was not long ago!!!

Isn’t sex part of our daily lives? Actually very essential part of our lives, sex = reproduction = survival!! Wake up people! Isn’t everyone having sex or did part of you really came with the stork? The lady at the supermarket did it, the cop that pulled you over, the gardener, the guy at the elevator, the cleaning lady at the office, the president, and your parents… and hopefully you 😉

Now, I am not talking about dirty details but some generic understanding of sexual activity, or perhaps open communication with your partner about your needs and wants in that department. I am actually taking about open communication all over the board, parents with kids, sexual partners, and even gossip consultants (aka among friends). It all starts with the parents who should and need to make sex and nudity less awkward by embracing it and understanding that this is what we got, every fucking one of us has the same operating system! From this point as these magnificent minds grow up and come to an understanding that sex is actually normal and natural, they’ll feel more comfortable talking about it, not slut shaming one another, not making it a big deal and feeling pressured to do stuff they don’t feel comfortable and so on.

Hell some people can fuck but not talk, how is that even possible?!?!?!? Can you tell your partner that you need to eat or drink? Or perhaps that you need to sleep? Why can’t you tell your partner that you need to fuck? Or if the sex is not good or enough then talk about it and find the problem. It is a problem like any other problem in the relationship, open communication is the key to ANY relationship and if you are intimate enough to have sex with a person you sure should be intimate enough to talk to that person, I am baffled that our mouth is more exposed than our vegaygay and dickaroo hummmm….

I just can not comprehend why do some people can have sex but can not talk about the act itself. Why people why????? Why does it put you in an uncomfortable situation? Its an act that you are doing but shameful to talk about? Then don’t fuck! You can’t pretend this just did not happened.